I got a patient, he is jewellery by profession. from last 1 month he was suffering from many emotional and financial trauma. he came to me for insomnia, from last 3 days he was unable to sleep.
What happen with him lets discuss.
At the end of July his wife went to her mother’s house without his permission and she deny to came back. then he went to her and discuss what is the matter. he went with her daughter and son.
Situation 01:
His wife told him that she has an extra marital affair with someone from 10years. she gives the valid reasons that he never give her respect and time what she want at the time of pregnancy and in other situations. he never take stand for her in front of his parents.
She was ready to move with someone else, they were rented a house, she don’t care about her children’s.
Reaction (what he did?):
But the patient handle the situation and pardon again and again, and promise her for everything what she want. he talk to her boyfriend too, and request him to leaver his wife, and finally they came back to home.
He decide to never disclose this matter in front of his family, because then the matter spread in the society and he will feel embarrassment.
Situation 02:
Then after 10 days he comes to know that about 30 lac jwellery is missed from the locker. in starting he don’t tell anyone in the family, because he knew that everyone point out his wife, but i suggest him to tell his father because they were business partner.
I counsel him in that situation and he came out after 15days and he decide to handle this financial crisis alone without his family support, because no one came to help while he helped his both brothers in his businesses and studies.
Now what he wants:
Now the situation is that he is unable to sleep, he feels alone, he needs support but no one there for him. he is emotionally damaged from his wife. his wife don’t want to come near. they only sleep in a bedroom but emotionally detached. he wants his wife, care his like before but she would not. he feels what he is doing and for whom. he helped everyone but in this situation he is all alone. he feels his wife betrayed him. in future she will leave him. he suffers silently; silent grief. he was weeping during this confession. he wants, his wife come to him and touch him like before, cuddle him, love him, he needs emotional support.
Even after all these circumstances, he brings her wife to me for her counselling. he wants to forget what she did with him. he cares about her a lot.
Then i again analyze whole case and prescribe a remedy.
Rubrics:
- MIND – AFFECTIONATE – returns affection
- MIND – AILMENTS FROM – love; disappointed
- MIND – FORSAKEN feeling – isolation; sensation of
- MIND – ANXIETY – others, for – loved ones, for
- MIND – GRIEF – silent
Prescription:
PHOS 200/ 3dose on every 10min.
Follow UP:
Next Day 8am he called and told me that he slept (after taking medicine) after 30min and wake up in morning 6am, without disturbance. his head feels light. he feels healthy.